Wow. I didn’t expect to be giddy with relief after the surgeon’s appointment today. Like Cinderella at the ball. Or Dorothy home in Kansas.
The three page birth plan is back in force. There will likely be no chemo. And probably no radiation. My hair won’t fall out and my skin won’t peel off. I won’t feel like I’m dying in the midst of “treatment.” Nobody batted an eye at my request for skin-sparing bilateral simple mastectomies and immediate reconstruction (the first steps of it, anyhow). The incisions are small, and the procedures will be done by folks I trust. All my externals will be left as they are–maybe even with some sensation. My friend Michelle just messaged me about the “awesome new rack” I’ll get for my troubles. LOL. I’ll be happy with just short of normal.
All the arcane testing done on my cells says they haven’t gone nearly as awry as “invasive” breast cancer implies. Chemo won’t work on “non-HER-2 expressors.” Or those with a “low Ki-67 proliferative rate.” Am I the only living woman with an urge to thank an under-acheiving cancer mutation? Mom viewed my decision to become a nurse as evidence of mediocrity. Well, hoo-yah!
We shall see. The above changes if it turns out some pesky cancer snuck into my lymph nodes. That will be determined with surgery and could require radiation. But by then I’ll have the expanders-soon-to-be-implants (yay silicone), and there’ll be no going back.
…I got to reading that last sentence, and realize there are friends and patients I know who’ve had a terrible time with aggressive cancers and all the misery chemo implies, as well as postoperative complications that require going back to the beginning and starting all over again. In the face of all that, my giddiness may well feel selfish and downright insensitive. I apologize. I’m enjoying the moment, though, and trust you don’t begrudge me that.